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Ep 06 | Obedience in Action: Trusting God with Your Leadership - Part 2

SHOW NOTES
Episode Overview
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Brandon Shelby to explore what it truly means to walk in obedience to God, especially in leadership. We dive deep into the emotions that arise when God calls us to obey—reluctance, fear, and trepidation—and discover how surrender and trust transform our relationship with Him.
Guest
Brandon Shelby - @mr_brandondjshelby ; website: https://www.corporatefreeagency.com/ 
Key Topics Discussed
What Does Obedience Mean?
Understanding obedience beyond simple compliance
Our natural reactions to God's commands
The heart behind our obedience
The Struggle with Obedience
Reluctance - Brandon shares a personal story of being reluctant to obey God and what happened as a result
Fear - The paralysis of not wanting to make mistakes and second-guessing what we've heard from God
Trepidation - Wrestling with uncertainty when God requires something we don't understand
Biblical Perspective: Doubting Thomas
We explore the story of Thomas (John 20:24-29) and discover that asking questions doesn't disqualify us from God's calling. Brandon encourages listeners to explore their feelings when God requires something they don't understand.
Key Lessons on Obedience
What Brandon has learned through his journey
Common places where we get tripped up
Obedience is surrender - and it's something we must do over and over again
Being inside God's will is the best place to be
Featured Scripture
Hebrews 5:7-9 (NLT) "While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. Even though Jesus was God's Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest, and he became the source of eternal salvation for all those who obey him."
Phillipians 4:6-9 (NLT) “Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice!  Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.
 Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
 And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.”
Key Quote
John Bevere - "Holy fear keeps us connected to the wisdom of our Creator—the only One who knows what enhances us and what undoes us." From: The Awe of God
Practical Application: How Do We Hear from God?
Spend intentional time with Him in prayer
Read and study your Bible regularly
Do it afraid.
Resources Mentioned
Book: The Awe of God by John Bevere https://johnbevere.com/aweofgod/ 
Deuteronomy 8:11-18 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%208%3A11-18&version=NKJV 
Hebrews 5:7-9 - https://bible.com/bible/116/heb.5.7-9.NLT
Psalms 25:12 - https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.25.12.NLT
Episode Takeaways
✓ Asking questions doesn't disqualify you from God's calling
 ✓ Obedience is about surrender, not perfection 
✓ Even Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered
 ✓ Fear of the Lord connects us to divine wisdom
 ✓ Being in God's will is always the best place to be
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Ep 05 | Obedience in Action: Trusting God with Your Leadership - Part 1

SHOW NOTES
Episode Overview
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Brandon Shelby to explore what it truly means to walk in obedience to God, especially in leadership. We dive deep into the emotions that arise when God calls us to obey—reluctance, fear, and trepidation—and discover how surrender and trust transform our relationship with Him.
Guest
Brandon Shelby - @mr_brandondjshelby ; website: https://www.corporatefreeagency.com/ 
Key Topics Discussed
What Does Obedience Mean?
Understanding obedience beyond simple compliance
Our natural reactions to God's commands
The heart behind our obedience
The Struggle with Obedience
Reluctance - Brandon shares a personal story of being reluctant to obey God and what happened as a result
Fear - The paralysis of not wanting to make mistakes and second-guessing what we've heard from God
Trepidation - Wrestling with uncertainty when God requires something we don't understand
Biblical Perspective: Doubting Thomas
We explore the story of Thomas (John 20:24-29) and discover that asking questions doesn't disqualify us from God's calling. Brandon encourages listeners to explore their feelings when God requires something they don't understand.
Key Lessons on Obedience
What Brandon has learned through his journey
Common places where we get tripped up
Obedience is surrender - and it's something we must do over and over again
Being inside God's will is the best place to be
Featured Scripture
Hebrews 5:7-9 (NLT) "While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. Even though Jesus was God's Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest, and he became the source of eternal salvation for all those who obey him."
Psalms 25:12 (NLT) "Who are those who fear the Lord? He will show them the path they should choose."
Key Quote
John Bevere - "Holy fear keeps us connected to the wisdom of our Creator—the only One who knows what enhances us and what undoes us." From: The Awe of God
Practical Application: How Do We Hear from God?
Spend intentional time with Him in prayer
Read and study your Bible regularly
Cultivate a lifestyle of listening
Resources Mentioned
Bible passage: John 20:24-29 (Doubting Thomas)
Book: The Awe of God by John Bevere https://johnbevere.com/aweofgod/ 
Deuteronomy 8:11-18 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%208%3A11-18&version=NKJV 
Hebrews 5:7-9 - https://bible.com/bible/116/heb.5.7-9.NLT
Psalms 25:12 - https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.25.12.NLT
Episode Takeaways
✓ Asking questions doesn't disqualify you from God's calling
 ✓ Obedience is about surrender, not perfection 
✓ Even Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered
 ✓ Fear of the Lord connects us to divine wisdom
 ✓ Being in God's will is always the best place to be
Connect with Us
Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/ 
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Email: hello@praywithoutceasingministries.com
Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

Ep 04 | It's OK for Leaders to Make Mistakes: Leading with Grace and Truth

Have you ever made a costly mistake as a leader? One that made you question your worth or whether you were cut out for leadership?
In this episode, I'm getting real about the fear of making mistakes and the pressure to be perfect. I share a personal story about a costly mistake that could have cost me my job, and the biblical lessons God taught me through it.
If you've been beating yourself up over a mistake or carrying the weight of perfection, this episode is for you.
Biblical Wisdom on Mistakes
Ecclesiastes 10:4 - A quiet spirit overcomes great mistakes
2 Timothy 3:16-17 - Scripture equips us through correction
Why God's Word doesn't shame us for mistakes
What True Leadership Looks Like
Authentic leadership embraces vulnerability and accountability
The shift from proving worth to showing trustworthiness
 Extending Grace to Yourself
How to forgive yourself and remember you are God's workmanship
"I don't have to be perfect. I have to be faithful."
Practical Steps Forward
5 steps for leading through and after mistakes
KEY SCRIPTURES
Colossians 3:23-24 - Work as for the Lord, not for men
1 John 3:16 - Real love requires sacrifice Read it here
Ecclesiastes 10:4 - "A quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes" Read it here 
Timothy 3:16-17 - Scripture corrects us with purpose to equip us Read it here
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Remember: You don't have to be perfect to be a great leader. You just have to be willing to learn, grow, and keep showing up.
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Ep 03 | Should Christian Leaders Tolerate Difficult People? 3 Biblical Strategies to Lead with Grace When Your Team Turns Hostile

Show Notes
Episode Description
Have you ever felt attacked, undermined, or disrespected by someone on your team? Do you dread going to work because of one difficult colleague? You're not alone—and as a Christian leader, you don't have to choose between holding boundaries and showing grace.
In this episode, we dive into three biblical strategies that will transform how you lead difficult people. You'll discover why empathy doesn't mean agreement, how refusing to take offense protects your leadership, and why forgiveness is actually about YOUR freedom, not theirs.
Whether you're managing someone who openly opposes you or navigating a toxic team dynamic, this episode will equip you with practical, Christ-centered tools to lead with integrity while protecting your peace.
What You'll Learn
✅ How to use Psychological First Aid principles to support distressed colleagues in the workplace
✅ Why "What happened to you?" is more powerful than "What's wrong with you?" when dealing with difficult behavior
The biblical truth about taking offense - and how it blocks your ability to lead with empathy
Why forgiveness is the key to personal healing
How to do your work "as unto the Lord" even when people don't deserve your best effort
Key Scriptures Referenced
Colossians 3:23-24 - "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men."
 Proverbs 19:11 - "A person's wisdom yields patience; it is to one's glory to overlook an offense."
1 Peter 4:8 - "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
Matthew 6:14 - "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you."
 1 Corinthians 13:7 (AMP) - Love "bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Galatians 6:2 (ESV) - "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
Three Biblical Strategies to Lead Difficult People
EMPATHY: Approach with Curiosity, Not Judgment
Shift from "What's wrong with you?" to "What happened to you?"
Create psychological safety using the 5 principles of Psychological First Aid
Remember: Empathy doesn't mean agreement
DON'T TAKE OFFENSE: Protect Your Peace
Taking offense is a choice that blocks empathy
Let God be your vindicator instead of fighting your own battles
Bear one another's burdens without letting bitterness take root
LOVE & FORGIVENESS: Kill Them with Kindness
Show Agape love even when it's not reciprocated
Forgive for YOUR healing, not just theirs
This Week's Challenge
Identify one difficult person or situation you're facing at work
Choose ONE strategy to implement: Empathy, Not Taking Offense, or Love & Forgiveness
Pray for that person daily this week
Remember: Do your work as unto the Lord, not unto people
Reflection Questions
Where have I been holding offense?
Who do I need to forgive?
How can I be a safer space for my team?
Am I doing my work for people's approval or for God's glory?
Resources Mentioned
Psychological First Aid Principles for workplace distress
Biblical principles on forgiveness and loving your enemies
Leadership mindset: Teammate vs. Subordinate
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Ep 02 | Leading at Full Capacity - Inviting God Into Your Leadership

Do you feel the weight of leadership responsibility? Struggling to lead effectively while honoring God? You're not alone.
In this powerful episode, we explore what it means to lead at full capacity—not by relying on your own strength, but by inviting God into every aspect of your leadership journey. Whether you're leading in ministry, business, community organizations, or your own family, this episode will transform how you view and practice leadership.
You'll discover that leadership isn't about titles or positions—it's about influence. And if you're a follower of Jesus Christ, you're called to influence others, which means you're called to lead.
In This Episode, You'll Learn:
Why leadership is influence and what that means for you
The dangerous mindset that keeps leaders stuck in self-focused performance
Three practical, biblical ways to invite God into your daily leadership
How to shift from "What do I want?" to "What does God want through me?"
The one question that changed everything about how the host approaches leadership
Practical steps to move from wherever you are to leading more effectively
Stop carrying the weight alone. Stop performing and start partnering with God. This episode will help you understand that when you seek God first, pray without ceasing, and walk in obedience, everything changes.
Perfect For: Christian leaders, ministry workers, business professionals, emerging leaders, parents, church volunteers, small group leaders, entrepreneurs, and anyone who wants to honor God in their leadership role.
Featured Scripture: Romans 12:8, Matthew 6:33, James 1:22, Deuteronomy 30:11, Proverbs 8:12, 1 Thessalonians 5:17
Featured Scripture References
Romans 12:8 (NLT)
"If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly."
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Application: Whatever gifts God has given you, use them seriously AND gladly. Leadership is a gift to be stewarded, not a burden to carry alone.
Matthew 6:33 (NLT)
"Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need."
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Application: When we prioritize God first—before our leadership, before our success, before our programs—He promises to provide everything we need. This is the foundation of leading at full capacity.
James 1:22 (NLT)
"But don't just listen to God's word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves."
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Application: Effective Christian leadership requires obedience, not just knowledge. Hearing God's voice is important, but acting on what He says is what transforms our leadership.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 (NLT)
"Never stop praying."
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Application: Prayer isn't just a morning or evening activity—it's an ongoing conversation with God throughout your day. Every decision, challenge, and opportunity is an invitation to pray.
Deuteronomy 30:11 (NLT)
"This command I am giving you today is not too difficult for you, and it is not beyond your reach."
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Application: What God is calling you to do as a leader isn't too hard for you. He equips those He calls. Step out in obedience with confidence.
Proverbs 8:12 (NLT)
"I, Wisdom, live together with good judgment. I know where to discover knowledge and discernment."
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Application: When we seek God's wisdom, He gives us creative solutions and "witty inventions"—innovative ideas that only come from Him.
Books Mentioned:
Pray Without Ceasing: 31 Days in Prayer by Audrey Shelby. https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/books
Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders
The Maxwell Leadership Bible by John C. Maxwell
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Ep 01 | My Story & How I was Called to Leadership

In this episode, I open up about my early days in leadership and the struggles I faced when fear and anxiety were driving my decisions. I reflect on what it was like to lead from that place, the impact it had on my team and myself, and the lessons I learned along the way.
Whether you're a new leader finding your footing or a seasoned one looking back on your journey, this honest conversation about the messy reality of leadership might resonate with your own experience.
Resources mentioned
https://stefaniegass.com/ 
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